Paulbuchman, 55
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Los Angeles, CA, USA
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I'm divorced, no kids, moved to LA from Florida 8-1/2 years ago. Been focused on career (I am a professional writer and actor) and building, but I don't have as many friends, especially close friends as I used to "back home," so I'm looking to find some additional friendships and hopefully a long term romantic one.Right off the bat - I am a Christian. It envelops and informs my entire life. My friends are of all stripes, but anyone I date or more needs to be a Christian. Non-negotiable. I was raised Lutheran, but have explored Presbyterian, Mennonite, Catholic, Methodist and more. I work out my faith with fear and trembling. I don't have kids of my own, but I am very good with kids and want to have some. Prefer not an instant family - just seen too much drama in many of those situations with multiple parents and families. (A widow would be different, of course). I love to read and write just about anything but Harlequin novels. I own several thousand books. I love watching (and making) movies, stage shows and Television. My favorite genre is sci-fi, but I am not limited to that. At the moment, I am heavier than I'd like. I was just working on reducing that issue when the pandemic hit and my gym closed. I am now the heaviest I've ever been, but walking and/or working out every day to get that under control.Like everyone, I have quirks that make me unique. I have a LOT of random bits of information in my head - I'm great at trivia, sometimes hard to watch TV with (especially cop & medical shows), unless they get me caught up in emotional storytelling. And, yes, I sometimes cry when watching.I tend to be conservative; under current conditions, probably best described as a moderate libertarian. I used to be a TV News Producer, and a Sheriff's Deputy (as did my Dad & sister). I like intellectual conversations, logical debates, and above all TRUTH. Disagreeing with me is great, but be prepared to defend.r
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight, Sapiosexual
Height
6'01"
Weight
270 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
acting, baking, bible study, board games, chess, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, history, internet, killing zombies, movies, music, nature, photography, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, robotics, science, television, travel, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds, large, overweight
Movies
action, animation, black & white films, classics, comedy, drama, fantasy, horror, indie, mockumentaries, murder mysteries, psychological thrillers, romantic comedy, sci-fi, westerns
Orientation
Celibate, Sapiosexual, Straight
Eye Color
blue, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, dark brown, light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced, monogamous
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
post-Graduate, Bachelor's Degree
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Entertainment / Media, Journalist / Writer, Sales / Marketing
Income level
$25,000-$50,000, that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
liquor, socially
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
a couch potato, better in small groups, comic relief, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
conservative, independent, libertarian, republican
Food Related
Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Mexican, Omnivore, Soul Food
Personality
artistic, coffeeholic, conservative, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, lover, nerd, professional, romantic, thrifty
Individuality
actor, artist, beard, nickelback fan
Religious Views
Christian, Messianic
Miscellaneous
round-earther
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, miss right, relationship, romance, soulmate, travel companion
My Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Military Service
space force
Pets
Dogs, No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Cisgender Male, Male
Music
Christian Rock, Classical, Dance, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Industrial, Jazz, Karaoke, Metal, Motown, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Rock, Ska, Techno, Alternative Rock, Celtic
Hair Style
curly
Fitness & Sports
bowling, soccer (U.S.), volleyball
Health Related
chiropractic, diabetic, minor dietary issues, minor health issues, pro-vaccine, therapy, western medicine
Languages
English, Spanish
Myers-Briggs®
ENFJ, ENTJ, INFJ, INTJ
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
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