Argentumcor, 52

i am a 30 year veteran of the b d s m lifestyle, i'm a parent, a student of human nature, a smart ass, a homebody, and a loyal friend once you get to know me.every day i am learning and evolving in the lifestyle, and in my personal life all the time, i believe we learn something new every day and if we stop learning we die. i am a huge proponent of education in the lifestyle and i enjoy sharing my knowledge with others and learning new things from the people around me nni'm a service top, but please don't think i'm insecure or weak. i enjoy giving bottoms/subs/prey, pleasure. i enjoy making dream scenes come to life.nas a service top i get pleasure from pleasuring sub/bottom/prey, i can be very sadistic when needed and when i feel it's warranted. i can be a very cruel, sadistic and wicked if that is what you need.n " a submissive is like a piano, they can tell me what keys to press to get a reaction, but i as the top ultimately decide on the melody i want to play."nnnext i am a primal hunter at my core.ni tend more to an animalistic and predatory nature during s----l activities, think of primal play as stripping away the " civilized" aspect of our interactions with one another and relying on things such as biting, scratching, wrestling, growling, and yes even tickling to communicate pain, pleasure, and everything that falls in between. being primal allows a person to give into and deeply explore their natural urges by allowing them to act on impulse rather then"learned civilized behavior".