Alexs26, 34

i don't know how to describe myself as i am far more complex than mere words can explain. for a back story it is best to just ask. my hobbies include gaming, anime, manga and comics. i also write (never completed a book). i don't like the stereotyping that a man has to be strong and self dependent (for protection). i am not the strongest or fittest. any maintenance of my body is purely for attention or self indulgence. i'm looking for a romance that is based on love not finances or S-- appeal. granted i will be picky as i have an idea now of what may lead me to a happy life. especially as males go many frighten me in all honesty. but enough about me. my ultimate goal is to find a lover that wants to protect me makes me feel safe and truly loves me. physical strength would be nice but not overdone please. nor over tanned it makes skin feel like leather. someone bold enough to make the first move. gentle enough to follow my lead but confident enough to pursue me. if you want my heart it is worth pursuit. even if you boldly turn the tables on me to grab my affections. sorry i lose myself to romantic interludes. kindness and acceptance of my complexity is important. if you are military, police or firefighter that is fine by me. it would be nice if you were taller. if you are a female martial artist, fighter, boxer, etc. i would very much love to see you fight or train with you or look after you after your bouts. i guess to sum it up what is important is that i matter to you just because i exist because, if i don't and i have to validate my worth do you really love me? also i do like romance so you can certainly try to set my heart ablaze. drop me a line.