Whatdoyouknow, 39

Friends plus.... I am quiet,open minded,kicked back,and curious.I love to learn new things,and have fun.I have spent my whole life going by a set of rules that were taught to me by,what I now realize are religious nuts.(I realized that it was them that taught me to think this way,not that they were nuts.I realized that a long time ago.I am more alternative.Meaning I fit in better with the outcasts.Metal heads,punkers,goths,etc,etc.I hate mainstream fashions,and trends.Such as "skinny jeans",ghetto clothes that are all too big,clothes that are ridiculously goddy,country,hip hop,rap,r&b.Just to give you an idea on what I am like.I prefer my friends to be the same way,less likelihood for conflict.Which brings me to what I am looking for here.Ultimately I want someone for a serious relationship.I am open to having a little fun along the way to find them.At this point I will take a man or woman, and am more interested in finding a woman.Because I have given several men a chance but never a woman.