Wesdiamond, 38

I'm no muscle man or country boy, but I'm funny! Despite my appearance, I'm no weak little nerd. I'm nerdy but in no way a weakling. If you're looking for some huge guy that can bench press 400 lbs, then I'm NOT your guy. I'm looking for a nice laid back (and maybe nerdy) girl who will like me for who I am than rather take judgement on my looks. I know this sounds mean but I won't date large women, I can't handle a female that will crush me if she were to sit in my lap. I'm not looking for a one night stand or instant sex, nor will I date drunks or druggies. Drinking socially is one thing, but getting trashed every night is something I won't tolerate. I also need a girl who is will tolerate my busy work schedule and not want to party until dawn or blow up my phone at 4 in the morning.