Shikumwaura, 49

I’m a woman who’s lived, loved, lost — and still chooses to believe in love.
I’m HIV-positive, diagnosed many years ago, and my story carries both pain and power. I lost my husband in 2003 to HIV — he was the one man who truly loved me. I also lost my firstborn in 1999. These experiences shaped me, but they didn’t break me.

I’m now a proud mother of two incredible boys, aged 25 and 17. They’re my joy and my daily reason to smile. Life hasn’t been easy, but I’ve built something beautiful out of the pieces.

I’m an empath, highly sensitive, and deeply intuitive. INFJ personality — which means I love deeply, care fully, and crave meaningful connection.

I enjoy simple, soulful things: cooking with love, stargazing in silence, laughing with my kids, hiking in nature, or getting lost in a spontaneous adventure. I wouldn’t mind dating someone with kids — I value family and emotional presence more than anything.

’m a proud Kikuyu living in Maasai land — I rock Maasai attire with pride and never say no to good nyama choma! Culture, laughter, and connection make my heart full.