Reapingbeauty, 47

I am looking for a knowledgable and respectful man What I am looking for. An HONEST MAN! Someone who gives me no reason not to trust him. Someone who I can laugh with, game with, debate with. Someone who doesn't have a problem keeping a job and has no addictions to waste his money on. Someone who is financially as well as mentally stable. I am not looking for a man to take care of me, I just want to see that priorities and obligations come first. What I am NOT looking for...No drugs, little or no alcohol, no past OR current addiction problems (including ----) I'm not going to be yelled at, cussed at, pushed around and bullied, I want a man that speaks about me behind my back they way they do when I am beside them (no butt dialing me and leaving messages about how much of a B---- I am because you are with your buddies trying to get them to hook you up) I lead a simple, quiet & functional lifestyle that suites me. I work, come home and either work more or play WOW, Xbox, PS3 whichever I turn on first. I am use to guys sweeping me off my feet and talking me into jumping rite into a relationship, I do NOT want that. I want to date and know that someone is a perfect fit before I commit myself. I am looking for love and to settle down...LATER ON.