Philg1321, 56

I am a simple man. I don't hold anyone to unobtainable standards or requests. I like someone who can communicate well with their partner. I think it is extremely important. If you can't communicate well, it's hard to maintain a healthy relationship. Honesty is huge and in the same pool as trust and faithfulness. If you lack any of the three, there really isn't any point of being in a relationship. My integrity is everything to me and I would expect the same from my partner. I feel a couple should be able to openly share everything and anything. If they can't, little things become huge things. The inability to share everything with a partner will leave you looking deceitful. I want to participate in every part of my partner's life and for her to want to participate in mine. I love affection, mentally and physically. I want her to enjoy my kids, family and inner circle and for me to be accepted and welcome by hers. I want someone who enjoys cuddling I want someone open and forward and will speak her mind. Someone willing to try new things and will try something before casting judgement. Someone flexible and willing to compromise. A relationship is not a one way street, you give to get. I want someone who is serious about starting a monogamous relationship. Obviously, start out talking, if a connection is evident then meet in person. I am not searching for a relationship out of necessity. It would just be nice to have that person you look forward to talking to, spending time with and the reason you look forward to tomorrow.