Lindsay8511, 40

Disclaimer: NO ------S. If you're looking for a quick lay, look elsewhere.

I am seeking long term companionship with a monogamous partner. I was born in 1985 and am seeking single men in my general age range who share my values. I am financially stable, dependable and organized and expect the same from a partner. I respect other people's time and expect others to respect mine.

I am seeking partners who are honest, understanding and willing to answer the tough questions without trying to hide anything, especially about their past relationships. I don't like making people uncomfortable but if I can't get to know you, the relationship can't move forward. Trust is important.

I don't drink, smoke or do drugs and am seeking the same in a partner. Would love to have someone to do activities with like walking/hiking, seeing movies, going out or attending events. Someone who can help keep me from doomscrolling on the internet and keeps me from getting too stuck in my own head would be a godsend. I'm looking for men who can take care of themselves and aren't seeking a caretaker in their partner. Taking care of my older parents is more than enough for me.

It's difficult for me to maintain long distance relationships so I'm looking for someone local enough that we can meet in person often. Seeking someone with a sense of humor but who won't make fun of my nerdy interests and hobbies. I have trust issues and it may take some time for me to warm up to you, so patience is a virtue.

I am also seeking friendships with people of any gender who are local enough to meet regularly in person. Please no scammers, psychopaths, perverts or liars! I have trust issues for a reason.

If you've made it this far and are still interested, I appreciate your time. Thank you and I hope to get to know you.