Johnnyswingdic, 47

I’m emotionally steady, and very much a homebody. I thrive in a quiet, routine oriented life and value consistency over constant stimulation. Most days are spent at home reading, gaming, or unwinding with a show, and that rhythm isn’t something I’m looking to radically change.

I enjoy getting outside occasionally, casual walks, hikes, sitting by a fire, but I’m not an outdoor enthusiast. Music is something I appreciate but my life does not revolve around it; I listen to a range of styles such as, metal, blues, bluegrass, funk, jam bands, folk (Celtic and Germanic). Twice yearly, during the summer, I attend small, low-key music festivals in New York to enjoy some camping with friends.

I’m drawn to thoughtful, contemplative interests and conversations, including philosophy of mind, *nalytic idealism, and older cultural or mythic traditions. I connect best with people who enjoy depth and reflection more than constant activity or surface-level chatter.

I’m looking for a serious, emotionally mature connection with someone financially and emotionally stable, independent, and comfortable maintaining their own space and routines. I do best in relationships built on intentional time together, mutual respect for personal boundaries, and closeness that doesn’t require merging daily lives or filling every quiet moment.