Jaysapio, 50

Divorced father of three grown kids (two girls, one non-binary), partner in a law firm, and a huge fan of kindness. I’m looking for long-term company, but open to just about anything that’s compatible with my committed partnership (girlfriend, also about 50, in an open marriage on the West Coast).

Verbal fencing, professional passion and sometimes indignation, hatred of fascism, and big appetites are all much appreciated.

I’m still an intellectual, even though I litigate. I wrote a book on ocean poetry a couple careers ago. It’ll cure your insomnia — but then maybe we get to wake up together.

Here’s to love and love of learning. Apollo, Venus, and cocktails. See you soon; let’s talk it all over.