Greyknight711, 41

I’m looking for someone who knows themselves—or is at least curious enough to try. Self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the ability to speak your mind matter more to me than any shared fandom. You don’t have to be into Gunpla, anime, or game design—but if you light up when talking about what you love, I’ll be right there listening (and maybe a little bit smitten).

I’m drawn to people who are grounded, thoughtful, and real. If you can show up with effort, clarity, and appreciation for the little things, we’ll get along just fine. I have no patience for emotional guessing games—if something’s on your mind, say it. I’ll listen, no judgment, no ego.

What matters most is connection. That said, I won’t lie: a best friend I can’t keep my hands off of sounds pretty ideal. Someone to build trust and comfort with—and still get butterflies when you send that look across the room.

Hard no to cruelty, bigotry, or rigid, absolutist thinking. The world’s weird enough without that energy.

If you're emotionally fluent, a little nerdy, and maybe look unfairly good in glasses or a great coat… well, you’ve already got my attention. Don’t be shy—say hi.