Gatortail, 53

The elusive soulmate, best friend. Someone that brings energy that brings the comic out of us both. Someone who chooses to see the silver lining in any given situation. Who is authentic take care of themselves and is not a fan of drama or dysfunction. Who sees life in the now. Does not live in the past and cannot stress too much about the future. Someone who is a healthy empath. Someone who has done a lot of self examination. Think before they speak, does not resort to yelling or violence of any kind. Can admit when they are wrong. It has the ability to work through life and its challenges. A communicator. Knows when to take a break calm down and read address issues in a better state of mind. Does not lay their head and anger. He has done the homework to know what narcissism is. Must be able to laugh at themselves and life. Who views the world not in a materialistic manner. Politically conservative. I vote Republican, but more of an independent. Someone who understands when there are just simply times you need to rest. Thanks before they judge another. Choose his harmony over dysfunction. Who can identify passive aggressiveness in themselves and fight the tendencies. Must be able to openly talk freely with no judgment. That is a challenge for everybody. Deep down inside no that harboring things is a cancer. There should be no elephants in the room. If you get all that then you should be a pretty normal person ha ha that is the challenge I guess. We all want that special person to grow old with. True love is alluded me. I’ve come to understand that. And I’ve come to understand what Love really is. It’s not conditional and it doesn’t require something back. Someone who is well rounded in lots of subjects who can carry on deep conversations. I am legally disabled, but I do live in active life and I’m looking for someone in the same position.