Flyerben, 40

Nerd to me means smart and interesting My name's Ben. I'm an easy going, reasonably intelligent (I think) guy who's into flying (I have a private pilot's license, sadly it doesn't get use too much these days), video games, sci fi and lots of things that might be considered nerdy, and I'd love to meet someone with similar interests. I think there are few things more attractive than a girl with intelligence and a good sense of humour who happens to like stuff like video games or comics. It seems to me that if that's the sort of stuff yhat you like doing then if the person you're with has no interest in it, they get cut out of a big part of your life.

I like reading (currently game of throes series) and I'm a bit of a film geek, especially when it comes to cheesy B movies. When it comes to the person I'm with, my general rule is that making the person I'm with happy makes me happy. I'm happy to just meet perople as friends, but I'm definitely looking for a relationship, one where both perrople recognize that sometimes it actually takes compromise and some work to make it last. If you want a guy who'll treat you right, who's generally interested in how your day went, and who likes to laugh and generally try to keep high school drama to an absolute minimum, maybe I'm the guy you're looking for.