Hey, I'm Travis. I spend most of my time exploring life's deeper questions: Professionally as an engineer, personally as an author, and emotionally as a deeply empathetic person. My primary home and heart are with my family in Southern California, but I spend about half of my time working up in the East Bay, where I'm looking for a primary partner who shares my values and desire fr an intentional connection.
Curiosity is at the core of who I am. I've written extensively about the courage it takes to ask the hard questions, and I apply that same curiosity to relationships. I believe that genuine connections thrive in open, honest, and sometimes vulnerable communication. Polyamory, to me, isn't just about openness. It's about intentionality, respect, and the courage to continuously grow together.
What I'm seeking:
- A primary partner who values depth, emotional authenticity, and intentional living.
- Someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations, exploring ideas, laughing freely, and experiencing life's simple moments together.
- A connection based on mutual respect for autonomy, boundaries, and the unique lives we each lead.
About me:
- I'm intellectually curious, deeply empathetic, and thrive in emotionally connected relationships.
- Professionally driven yet balanced by a love for storytelling, introspection, and creativity.
- Highly communicative and emotionally available, bringing intention and clarity to every relationship.
If you're someone who values meaningful conversations, appreciates authenticity, and seeks an anchor in mutual respect and emotional depth, let's connect. I'd love to discover where our curiosity leads us.
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Poly with purpose - Searching for my East Bay anchor
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'8"
Weight
160 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Writing, Science, Puzzles and brain teasers, Movies
Body Type
Athletic
Movies
Psychological thrillers, Drama, Comedy, Classics
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
Married
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
Doctorate
Profession
Technical / Science / Engineering, Journalist / Writer
Income level
$100,000+
Do you smoke?
No - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
No
I currently live
With roommate(s), Alone
Socially, I am
Social butterfly, Flirt
Food Related
Hot Sauce on Everything, Sushi, Omnivore, Indian
Personality
Flirt, Free spirit, Intellectual, Romantic
Individuality
Superhero
I'm looking for
The yin to my yang, Romance, Relationship, Miss right, Dating
My Sign
Aquarius : jan. 20-feb. 18
Music
Rock, Alternative Rock, Choir, Country, Dance, Funk, Hard Rock, Ska, R and B, Relaxation and Meditation
Hair Style
Comb over
Fitness & Sports
Cycling, Hiking, Jogging, Rock climbing, Weightlifting, Working out
Languages
English
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Social Justice
Feminist Movement Advocate, Pro-Choice Advocate, Me Too Movement Advocate, LGBTQ Issues Advocate, Immigrant Rights Movement Advocate, Black Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch
Highly Sensitive Type
Empath, Intuitive, Overexcitable
High Sensation Seeker
Experience Seeking
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