Cocoa40, 54

cocoa40 young heart with a mix of adventure, wisdom and a seasoned soul. love music ....70's baby. starting to love more classic music more now that i just turned 40 and love the simple life..... love grooving to good music at home. who needs the club when you can jam to earth wind and fire , the whispers , luther vandross, babyface , chaka khan and prince at home. i also traveling, concerts, beaches, seafood and boat rides . love to laugh...... had some hard times but find joy in faith, music , dance and seeing others grow as i am still growing. not overly trusting in the beginning ....trust definitley has to e earned with me from day one. gifts are not so important to me ....... actions speak louder than words and gifts . gifts should be a compliment and a symbol to a special relationship. i am definitely not perfect ,,,inner or outer but i am growing and learning from my mistakes.......learning to be a better mother and person to myself and for myself and others. to let the past go....everybody has a story but the key is not let it take your happiness and the life and love you deserve. i have learned that on my journey in growing.

what am i looking for in a relationship? a man who respects a woman, believes in chivalry, romance, not rushing...... treats a special woman like she deserves.......not all about the body , ---, rims, looks , clothes, money and hoes. also, to communicate can not be emphasized enough. how many times people fall out over a misunderstanding? when one or both thought the intentions meant this but out of a lack of knowledge didn't understand and if communicated could have been resolved.....and that can only be done without stubborness and forgiveness. stubborness seperates.