Charmpixie, 41

as far as guys go i am kinda shallow i think.

frist of all i wont date a guy that dosnt have long hair. hehe just one of my things.

i like the guy i am with to have some kind of artistic talent, rather it be writing, drawing, singing, or dancing. it dosnt matter.

as far as personality gos i wont be with anyone that gets jelous easy. by being a gamer chick, the sport is surrounded by guys. it isnt real common for a chick to me involved in it to the exstent i am.

all my friends are guys and i value them over everything else. guys will coma and go but my friends will be ther always.

i also require loyalty and honasty. i wont tolerate lying at all. no drama, mind games or cheating, it not my cup of tea, and personal i think it is a waste of time for me to have to deal with it.

Also i have two young kids, one 3 1/2 and the other 10 months. so i want someone with the desire for a family. i cant have anymore so i try to avoid anyone who wants children of there own someday because that is something that is never going to die and something i cant give.

Other then that, i just want someone to love me as i love them.I am really layed back, and just went through a divorce, well am still going through.
i am willing to wait as long as i have to, to find the one i really want to spend my life with.

Everything should go really natural, and i hate feeling as though i am being presured to move faster or slower then i am willing to go. Two people should be on the same page always.

i dont think i am better then anyone else out there, and i am not really vain at all. yet i do believe you can find everything you want in one person. it is possiable and dose exsist.

I do require all these things because they are the things i offer to a relationship. Everything i said, is my values, and i dont want to be with with anyone that cant offer what i am willing to give.