I’m looking for a man who knows who he is, what he wants, and isn’t afraid of a woman who knows the same. I want a connection that feels easy, real, and electric all at once. Something where the energy flows naturally, but the effort is mutual and consistent. I’m not here to teach someone how to treat me—I’m here for someone who already knows how to love with intention.
He should be emotionally intelligent, self-aware, and honest—not just with me, but with himself. Confidence is sexy, but arrogance is not. I’m drawn to a man who can take the lead, but never makes me feel small while doing so. Someone who respects boundaries, but knows how to break down walls with patience, laughter, and late-night vulnerability.
I want to feel safe in your presence—not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. I want us to challenge each other in the best ways, hold each other down during the worst, and celebrate each other loud during the best. A real partner, not a placeholder.
He’s got his own goals, his own passions, but still makes time for connection. He can communicate, flirt, show affection, and isn’t afraid of deep conversations or being a little silly. Someone who makes me feel chosen—not just when it’s convenient, but even in the quiet, unglamorous moments.
He has style—inside and out. Maybe he dresses well, maybe he smells amazing (yes please), maybe he believes in self-care and wellness—or maybe he just carries himself in a way that turns heads without trying. Either way, his energy speaks before his words do.
Spiritually open, emotionally grounded, mentally mature, physically affectionate—those are the real turn-ons. I love a man who listens. A man who can handle silence as much as excitement. Someone who brings peace, not chaos. Who makes me feel soft in his presence, not like I need to be on guard.
Let’s match on values, not just vibes. I want someone who believes in loyalty, romance, and shared gro
Cecechocolate, 39
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Farmington, MS, USA
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Confident, flirty, artsy, sweet, mysterious, magnetic.
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'6"
Weight
170 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Wine tasting, Cooking & recipes, Board games, Baking, Cruises, Dancing, Fishing, Fleamarkets, Gardening, Movies
Body Type
Fit
Movies
Action, Classics, Comedy, Drama, Horror, Romance, Romantic comedy, Sci-fi
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
Single - never married
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
College grad
Profession
Construction / Craftsman
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
No - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
Socially
I currently live
Alone
Political Views
Not interested in politics
Food Related
Italian, Caribbean, Mediterranean, Soul Food, Spicy, Thai
Personality
Activist, Artistic, Fashionista, Free spirit, Lover, Entrepreneur, Geek, Eccentric, Tree hugger, Nerd
Individuality
Artist
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
Mr. right, Relationship, Romance, Soulmate
My Sign
I don't believe in zodiac signs
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Music
Soul, Country, Hip Hop, Jazz, Karaoke, R and B, Rap, Reggae, Relaxation and Meditation
Fitness & Sports
Aerobics, Dancing, Walking, Pilates, Hiking
Health Related
Anti-vaccine
Languages
English
Social Justice
Black Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Quality Time
Highly Sensitive Type
Intuitive, Empath
High Sensation Seeker
Thrill Seeking, Experience Seeking, Boredom Susceptibility
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