Blkcactus, 51

Peaceful, Easy Feeling I want to say right up front, I'm Black & a BBW, so if thats not your cup of tea, I'm saving you a bit of time here by telling you to keep looking.

I really enjoy my life but I know theres room for more.

I like hanging out around the house. I also like going to the park, swap meet, the movies, or out to eat. On weekends I usually catch up on my favorite shows, volunteer, listen to music, hang out with my kids--basically unwind and try not to think about work. Occasionally I like to go out to listen to music and maybe have a drink.

I love music-Classic Rock, 80's and Hip Hop, but I can't get do Country...sorry! (If you caught the musical reference in my Headline, we're off to a good start...)

My main goal in life is to raise my kids to be upstanding, self-sufficient adults; to be a good mother/girlfriend/all around person; and to live a happy, peaceful life. (It may sound boring but it's who I am.) I'd like him to have strong family values and be fun loving.


The reason I'm here--ideally, I'd like to find a man to hang out/spend time with-doing family friendly things in the day, and more adult things in the night. (I'll leave it at that..)

Race isn't an issue with me. I'm not stuck on looks either. I great personality with a good soul is the sexist thing I can think of.

As everyone says in their descriptions, if there is anything you'd like to know, just ask.

Thanks for taking the time to read.
Good luck on your search!