Barry114, 65

LETS LOVE I am looking for a woman who will be my best friend, soul mate, lover, and eventually my wife. I am looking for someone who is attractive to me, affectionate, with a loving, giving, caring personality, not selfish or overly demanding, reasonably intelligent, has some ambition in life, a sense of humor, loves to laugh, and confident with themselves. I like to be in love, feel as though I can tell this person anything, and feel comfortable with them no matter what the situation. Feeling that connection or bond between two people is key. Trusting this person with my heart and emotions, knowing that they will never use this against me to hurt or manipulate me is a must. The initial physical attraction is very important as I am a very physical guy, but it is most important that I am able to wake up next to this person every day and still have something to say to each other. I like modern career women with some old-fashioned qualities mixed in. Women that are not afraid to take charge or take initiative are a turn on. Most guys do not want to have to plan and take charge of everything. I want to meet some one who is willing to share my ambitions and goals in life as I share theirs. I am a hard workingman and have always had to work for everything. Nothing seems to have been given to me by luck or by my family. I prefer to meet someone who understands this, where I've been, the struggles and disappointments in life, the successes of something well done, and what it has taken to get where I am today. (What I am saying is someone who has not been overly spoiled and had their life handed to them on a silver platter) I am a very giving person both emotionally and in material things. However, I want someone who is going to love me for who I am even if we lost all material possessions