Allenf1965, 59

i lived abroad for a long time and moved back to my hometown in 2010. i only recently tried getting back to dating and tried several sites--they were a nightmare for the most part. i'm looking for an independent strong woman that for some strange reason likes being with me. i'm a hugger and like to snuggle while watching movies (other times as well of course). i was thin most of my like and have gained weight the last 15 years (it still feels strange to me not being thin). i like playing pool/billiards sometimes and used to be pretty good. last year my sister took me to a 'blacklight, cryptically themed miniature golf place--it was corny but fun.