Why do Women treat Nice guys like crap?

[lovinman58]

I was dating a woman a little overweight, three kids ( 2 teens ) 1 6 yr old. wodowed fro three years. we had been dating about seven months. seeing each other 1-2 times a week. I was very good with the kids ( I have three of my own). If we didn't go out I would cook dinner for all of us Her kids and all. she was having work done on her house for a lead abatement and also for state sponsored home improvement. she had to move 90% of her possessions to storage while the work was being done. I was there on weekends days when I was off because of my work shift. evenings after work. and I helped her get all this stuff out. and then back when the work was done. she had told me she didn't want to get too serious and I was ok with that. we were intimate and it was wonderful I always got her to orgasam at least once usually more. so I was really bewildered whed sssSunday night she told me she wanted some space then Tuesday she told me it was over , but she hoped that someday maybe in a couple of months we could be friends. I feel used and taken advantage of , and very hurt because I'm in love with her and I told her I was in love with her. I would appreciate any advice I could get from women and men out there or am I just a good hearted schmick. I would appreciate any insight you might have. Thanks

lovinman58

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`awe i'm sorry honey that really sucks . i don't know ? some women are fickle and one minute a chick knows what she wants and the next it's not what your looking for and if she had stated early in the relationship that "i don't want to be serious" then appreciate her company for what is.

i don't know if that help's at all?

[catalina5757_PREV (deleted)]

.New at this so really dont know what to post here...

[annsel_PREV (deleted)]

.The perception is that women treat nice guys like crap, but the truth is a little different. What seems to you like nice guy behavior may actually seem creepy or inappropriate to the lady in question. Try to occupy a different point of view and leave alone the people who are treating you like crap.

[carl28]

`yer wat i think is that there are people in this world who arent nice peopleand im not gonna waste my time on woman you are screwed up and have had a bad upbringing where there fathers were absent or treated them like crap and so in turn have come to expect that same behavour in all men.

[skimmer_PREV (deleted)]

`When you tell someone you have fallen in love with them, and they don't feel the same, what choice do they have but to back out? I've had it happen a number of times. I don't like it, and you hope they will eventually feel the same, but if they don't, they don't. It's also happened to me the other way around as well. I know, it's frustrating.

[countrygryl23]

.Why do men treat good women like crap?
I feel that the reason is that they do because they were never shown the way to treat women the right way.

[ladybuggnh_PREV (deleted)]

.How are you going to get to know people if you don't date them and get to know them to see if you are compatable?

[gtk1959]

.I have no understanding why women treat nice guys like crap, I just know a new study was released recently showing selfish, narcissistic men have an evolutionary edge over nicer guys. Let them have the edge, I'd rather treat a woman nicely.

[spoilbrats19 (deleted)]

`some women just dont like the whole nice guy approach and one way of realizing that is with a self centered hottie, my best friedn who i love dearly fits this profile she is beautiflu to the bones and she knows it... she hates nice guy the whole lovey dovey thing is way too much for her she knows she is beautiful and smart and gorgeous and a guy telling her all this is just wasting her time..she thinks that he isnt bringing anything to the table or even adding to her personla enjoyment... being around her has taught me alot she like guys who are ruff and touch who would smack her on the --- and call her names because it something that she isnt use to hearing or being treated it exciting and refreshing to have a guy take control and iis confident of his masculinty.

[makexmeobleed (deleted)]

I have no idea why some girls enjoy being treated like crap and stay away from the nice guys. I really don't understand females at all (even though I am one) but I think my brain is more like a male's brain than a female's brain cuz I don't understand females whatsoever!!
I like nice guys and if a guy ever treated me like crap I'd knock his teeth in.

[spunkygurl81]

.women treat nice men like crag cause they dont use there head. i was stupid as a young gurl. I always went for the bad boys. Now im trying to find a good guy and cant find any

[lonesensai23]

`I have had to watch many girls in my life go with the wrong guy. One of my good friends who is a woman, is with this guy that dosen't do anything for her or with her. He is just a waste who likes to get drunk alot.

I have been pushed aside for the jerks, and then later on down the road when things don't work out with them i just say, well, you had your chance.

[ffemtproeder_PREV (deleted)]

.Yahoo had an article about why women don't like nice guys. They think we're boring and predictable. They think we don't have a high self-esteem and we're push overs. We're not challenging and have no self-respect. Bull crap!! lol

[thedoll (deleted)]

`Heh. If I could even find a guy I'd keep him forever. But in general, I think most women think nice guys are boring?