Traveling for love

[allyours27 (deleted)]

Does This happen to alot of people or just me? You always meet the right one, someone you like, who you would love to be with and yet there on the other side of U.S.A Or world for that matter....I must like challenges I guess! Please tell me I'm not the only one!

[pasanquenape (deleted)]

`I would if the other person was okay with it, but an Indian has no place outside of North America.

[malakotawelo]

`but are they really perfect? or if one were to move to be with what they think is their soul mate, would they find out that what their fantasy was, and what reality was, didnt match up?

there are a lot of lonely people out here that think there is nobody good enough close by, but they just have not met that person yet...and the internet always gives us the illusion of perfection, but rarely is it true...

none of my long term relationships were on the internet, that is fantasy more often than not, they were because i got up and got out to meet people, and really saw them for who they were before attempting to build anything meaningful...

does that mean they were imperfect because the relationship did not last? no... the time just was not right...one of us or both of us was not really ready for that kind of dedication...

[rasmith442]

`I think the potential for deluding oneself with a fantasy exists right at home too, though...and on the other hand, I've known of folks who "moved for love" and are still going strong in their relationship at 10 years+. I think the difference comes down to your grounding in reality, your ability to be honest with yourself and another person, at least partly anyway, whether it's at home or over the internet. Just my 2 cents.

[pinkreigne (deleted)]

`@allyours27: If he or she is the right one, being on the other side of the world wouldn't post a problem. If the long distance is a problem then they are not the right one. JMO.