do men like --- more then women

[lilducky69_PREV (deleted)]

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[kelly01 (deleted)]

no way man im a girl and we love it just as much as u boys do

[fringey]

I have always hated that myth. I know women who have enjoyed --- as much as I do and men who enjoyed it less than some of those women. It is a personal thing for every person.

Patrick
a.k.a. Fringey, The Fringe Element
"A life lived without passion is a life not lived."

[samantha675 (deleted)]

Absolutely not! That is a myth.

[svecica_PREV (deleted)]

I think that used to be the case more than it is now. Society didn't always think men needed any skills in that dept. The higher a priority performance has taken, the more women became interested. I think there still isn't as much presure on women to perform as men though. It seems a lot of women don't feel the need to do much more than show up, but expect men to make it worth their while to do so.

- svecica

[ANTINOMY_PREV (deleted)]

I think women need --- less than men, but both enjoy it the same. Many women I know describe the feeling like, "I'm just not interested in that sort of thing," when they choose not to approach males and other potential mates. I've only met one guy who felt like that, and he was medically depressed. It's not that guys enjoy it more; at least potentially females have the ability to enjoy it far more intensely than males. What it is is that guys by and large have more of a compulsion to do it.

Is that entirely their genetics and testosterone at work? It plays a large part surely, but one of the sources for this pressure guys feel to seek out --- is the attitudes of society. If a guy is taught not to hug people or get close with people or be friendly and gentle, then he's likely to be desperate for some human contact more than a woman whom people who barely know her will happily hug and stroke her in ways that our species needs to stay sane. Also if a woman is told that only bad girls want sex, or that there is some kind of monster waiting to kill them if they seek out sex, then they'll likely feel guilty and frightened if their bodies ever crave the carnal pleasures. All the rapists combined don't hold a penny to the damage done to women's psyche by people who tell her to watch out for all those rapists.

Anyway, that combined with the hormones flooding our blood means that guys will generally want --- desperately, and seek it out, even if they only have so much capacity to enjoy it. They will delude themselves into thinking they can't want sex, but only want what's best for the girl and that their noble sacrifice of devotion to her will result in something more moral than all those hoards of --- crazed perverts lurking in the shadows. Girls will generally wait, like Sleeping Beauty or Penelope, and hope someone will come to fulfill their ------ needs, but delude themselves into thinking they only want emotional support or child bearing assistance. Those who escape those traps are awesome people indeed, but even people stuck in those archetypes are worthy individuals. We just have to try to approach things without preconceived notions, beyond the fact that women go in and men go out.

That's what I think at least. I haven't been able to experience both sides of the coin, so until someone does I think our quest for understanding will be like everything else, doomed.