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alikakadri
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I definitely agree with the Lady (1whitekitten) that said go out and shop for what you want. Check out the 'who viewed my profile' list and update your mood/status so people will see you're active on the site, post in the forums, go in the chat (lobby's almost always got ppl in it), check the list of new members and the list of who's logged in now and look at profiles. The more profiles you look at, the more will look at yours.

I agree also that a lot of girls don't really know what they want, although they claim to want a good gentleman and then go for the cool guy who'll break her heart. Women however know what they want.

for the guys/girls who fail at getting replies from people... I agree with the post above:

1. don't be rude
2. no pity stories
3. READ HIS/HER PROFILE... are you looking at so many profiles that you're thinking the one you're talking to is blond w blue eyes when that was the girl two profiles before? well, that's pretty rude/insulting...
4. exactly how many other people have you smooched/hugged/licked (yuck) in the exact same hour/day you did that to them (personally i find that approach a bit creepy as opposed to 'hey, I noticed we both like...' or 'I liked what i read on your profile, can we talk?')?
5. don't go too fast... sure most ppl are in the fast lane now-a-days but whatever happened to getting to know someone on a deeper level?? A lot of women want a best friend to go with the romance... trust is the building block of any relationship, the foundation. respect is the support beams that holds the walls up.
6. other factors play into acceptance of courtship (yes, I use old fashion words)... if they don't want a smoker and you smoke, no matter how hot you are, they'll be turned off..., if they are looking for compatible likes and you share none, too bad so sad..., guys, if any of your words are perceived as too forward, or even creepy, or disrespectful you just missed your chance! Treat us like humans, not like a juicy steak to be drooled over... consider that the other person might have been hurt in the past and doesn't want to repeat the experience... once bitten twice shy.

and if their profile says friendship only and you go asking for ---...expect to be rejected!



oh yeah, small edit...

things like 'i'm mentally stable' or 'i'm a good guy' scream red flag
you view yourself that way doesn't mean that you are, but claiming it usually goes the same way as if you say 'trust me' it means you cannot be trusted as a general rule and those who can and say 'trust me' lose out because it brings up red flags galore

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tatt0odallova




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`welll..look at ur statss...ur 5'7 115?this is a site for bbw's lol,no wonder why men arent givin u no love.....

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Well sweetheart, There is someone for Everyone, You will find the one, It could be now or tomorrow, a week from now, a month....Dont give up You are destine to find someone, (chin up) :)

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