What am I doin wrong?

[piggychic1971 (deleted)]

I don't get it! I've been on here for a lil while now and no one has even looked at my profile! Am I that UGLY??? I must be destined to be alone forever! I'm a great person, really! I love life! Does my Mister Right really exist?....or am I correct in sayin NO he doesn't? If you are out there.....I'm over here....still waitin for you to show yourself!!!!

[(deleted)]

Have you tried looking around yourself and emailing people. Or looking outside you area. Right now this site seems to be slim pickings for those of us really truly looking. I've messaged many of the woman on this site and some of the other sites and either get one liners or no reply at all and I don't know what I'm doing wrong either. I can tell by your pick that your a lovely lady and I hope you can find someone.

[roadtripper79]

Well Piggy, I think I dropped you a not a while back... am I so ugly that you didnt want to respond?[/u]

[fringey]

I am sure there are plenty of guys who are very attracted to you. But, often a beautiful woman can be very intimidating.

Patrick
a.k.a. Fringey, The Fringe Element
"A life lived without passion is a life not lived."

[coolsti (deleted)]

Hmmm, do people actually use this website to make contact with others via email? Since this is the internet world, this site is global (I myself am in Denmark) and I wouldn't have thought about trying to meet another member by emails, since most other members live so far away. I joined this site to make use of the online chat, to talk to whoever happened to be online. I just wonder how many other members of this site think like I do and are just ignoring all that with profile searches, sending emails and other such virtual pokes.

[1whitekitten (deleted)]

[quote="piggychic1971"] I don't get it! I've been on here for a lil while now and no one has even looked at my profile! Am I that UGLY??? I must be destined to be alone forever! I'm a great person, really! I love life! Does my Mister Right really exist?....or am I correct in sayin NO he doesn't? If you are out there.....I'm over here....still waitin for you to show yourself!!!!

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piggychic1971........when you want a new dress do you sit back and wait for the Shop to bring you a selection......of course not..YOU get up go out and look in the windows......this is no different.......there are many Beautiful Men on this site..so GO LOOK honey, and send them an message
what have you got to lose.......if they are interested they will get back to you.....but NEVER EVER just sit and wait.......its all up to you....

[silkandthorns08_PREV (deleted)]

.i was the same way, no one wanted to look at my site, i figured there was no point in having an account on here if i never used it, so i just got out there and started introducing myself, and its working pretty well, im getting to know a lot of interesting people.

[showguy12 (deleted)]

.hello

[archanat]

`hi

[(deleted)]

`I feel your pain. I've thrown a very honest profile out there. I'm just a nice guy who is really a gentleman. Although many say thats all they want, I'm not feeling it.

[(deleted)]

.some people are just fake and i mean i would like somebody too and i would like to believe that everyone is being honest in there profiles (iam ) but a lot of people post profiles that are nothing like there personality

so you cant really run on that one day you'll find you what your looking you just have to keep the faith? i think lol

[alphatwofive]

Shoot... I'm a 25yr old guy, with no kids, a good job, and a house. Girls don't even bother to look at me, nor do they respond to my messages. I'm definitely feelin' that guy up there who said girls say they want a good guy, but clearly arn't looking for one!

I'm trying to get myself out in the public eye. Been going to the mall two or three times a week. I'm trying to get my shy butt talking to girls. Its tuff, and its a slow process, but its better then waiting for these web sites to come through! :!:

[mark82]

Well what seems to be the case with internet dating and why it doesn't work for a lot of people is even if someone sends you a message of some kind and you reply back, it's an unnatural way of communicating with people.

Most human communication is through gestures, facial expressions, tones of voice, eye contact, body language. None of these things can be expressed through text messages.

[quezya (deleted)]

This is so Ridiculous what you need to do is search send pokes messages and emails. But the number one thing you need to do is change your name I saw your name first and decided I wasn't going to click on your profile. After seeing this post I opted to write something. No man wants to think of a fat ugly pig when they're looking for love. Men don't think of soft cuddly things like women you want hits you need to change your name and do some work.

[historybuff07 (deleted)]

Hey there, I agree with girl above, I wrote a small post for guys who were having similaur issues-- here hope you enjoy!

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Hey guys!

Ok so I've been here for about two days now and like any new kid I've been reading a few posts and profiles (no I'm not some creeper ...just curious ! ) as much as I've enjoyed meeting a few of you and reading about your diverse personalities.

I was saddened to see the whole "nobody loves me because I'm disabled bit" or my personal faveroite the whole "keep hoping and he or she will magically save me gig - - REALLY!? now today's post is not directed towords anyone specific I'm just shocked that so many great people have such low opinions of themselves, so I wanted to share with you the secret to my confidence in hopes that you all find your other halfs one day.

You know as kids we all had our heroes, some of us loved Michael Jordan others praised aerosmith but we the disabled have heroes who ran across Canada and others who made us believe we could be greater then we ever imagined (think Christopher Reeves) saying that nobody loves you beacause your disabled is as crazy as saying nobody loves me because I have black hair!? ( stylish hair too lol)

Guys I'm no expert but I'd like to believe girls aren't attracted to needy guys they want a man who can give them an adventure and be there when it counts....the mistake we all make (yes I'm no exception ) is that instead of TAKING them on an adventure we MAKE them the adventure...
the best example I can think of is (as cheesey as it sounds) Salsa dancing...what makes the difference between a good dancer and a GREAT dancer is a good dancer will know the steps but a great dancer will move to the rythem

Example its friday night and sheez your just wishing somthing great would happen to you today (FACT: ALL PEOPLE love great coversation and WANT you to talk to them) so you ask yourself what can I do today to make a fun tomorrow?

When your writting to a girl the last thing you wanna do is sell a pity story, (cause that translates to oh know this guy just wants a shoulder not a girlfriend) heck I don't even talk about my CP IF and only IF she asks about it say somthing that highlights your value...

EXAMPLE: Sure I walk like a penguin....girls think there cute but I prove they're SEXY

When your writting a girl try to picture her perspective before sending another "hey how are you" or "GOSH your BEAUTIFUL" (trust me your not the first to tell her she already knows she is....what you want to do is ask interesting questions that will shed light on her mystery

if a guy says how are you?---- you don't really give her much space to branch out....what can she say? good thanks you?...thats not a great way to make an impression

try asking real questions and take a few moments to read her profile lol trust me they know when you don't read lol so if you read my post tonight I'm hereby giving you homework tonight .....I want each of you to write somone and let them know what you appreciate about their profile (I swear if any of u say anything strange to make them uncomfortable i'll hunt you and your decendents down jk jk)

I'd like to end my post with a quote

"if a rubix cube is admired for its complexities....a woman is loved for her mystery"

-ym-

ps feel free to tell me how it works out for you below and best of luck to all!