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[dragonsnake_PREV (deleted)]

What makes a person not care if another person is married and knowingly sleeps with this person thinking I am not the married one so I dont care, does this make this someone a desperate evil human being please enlighten me...I am not understanding how easy people find it these days to just screw someone for their selfish and desperate needs....are d----s that expensive?

[kenforfun_PREV (deleted)]

In response to your post I can say this! The majority of people on this planet if not everyone at some time or another has thought about cheating on their significant other, it is human nature not to be satisfied. Some people believe life is to short to do without, some feel they made a mistake, others are just risk takers. Men and Women alike equally share this phenomenon.[/b]

kenforfun

[div1dedsky (deleted)]

Most peopl think about it. That's why the internet is a good outlet, b/c you don't have to follow through. You can burn the steam with a goofy fantasy.

[neverchanging (deleted)]

.people should never cheat even online

[naturalbeauty (deleted)]

`well i steer clear of people who are married online, that way i dont get involved in marriage problems resulting from that person being on the net.

[lild4589 (deleted)]

.cheating
`well i steer clear of people who are married online, that way i dont get involved in marriage problems resulting from that person being on the net.

[lils46 (deleted)]

.Just dropped in to say hey!!

[lils46 (deleted)]

.Just dropped in to say hey!!

[nativeguyooo (deleted)]

.we only stray if we want to,because if we do its about self control.peoplecontrol things better than others

[classicsfan]

`I try hard not to impose my morality on others. In my opinion, when a person has a liaison with a married person, the person who really has to answer the ethical questions is the one who is married. Single people have taken no vow if loyalty to another.

I have known married couples who maintained an open concept marriage, and 'cheating' was not a concept they maintained. It is very difficult to know what goes on within the confines of any relationship, and the dynamics can be very complex.

In some marriages one party may not be able to supply all of the emotional or physical needs of the other, but they supply enough that they choose to stay together.

A person who deliberately seeks out married partners is most likely someone who wants to ensure that they will not have a long term relationship. It is also possible they have some deep seated psychological issues around marriage that drives them to be destructive.

Having said all that, a person who deliberately cheats on one partner, would most likely cheat on me. Not the kind of person I would ever plan on settling down with.

[sha123fun]

.people who plan on cheating shouldn't get married

[chocdrop25]

.why get married? Marriage is a lifelong commitment and should be treated as such if you're not ready to stop playing your definatley not ready for marriage.

[spoilbrats19 (deleted)]

i think it is some force of human nature that cause people to cheat, its a mental issue that has been around for years and its quite understandable... ur not happy in a relationship but you love the person to death or even worse you and your lover are in fights constantly then you meet someone who agrees with you and comfort you through ur ordeal...

a sense of affection and care for that person arrives and your expression of love turns to ----.... in my own experience i have been capable of cheating on my boyfriends and its not because i dont love them is that i have serious mental issue that i think only a doctor can perscribe..

but now since i finally found the love of my life i have no urges to go out of the box i have been to parties with my girlfriends and guy consistently beg me to dance or talk to them and most of the time i find myself mre quiet not very talkative and wondering what my baby is doing at this point in time and cant wait to see him again .. in some case i think its just accoring to your love and understand with your partner and i am truly happy with mine......

[mhreid60]

.Cheating is the worse thing you can do to a relationship. All the trust is gone. It doesnt matter how bad the relationship is. I would never cheat.

[thesleepercc]

some people cheat because they have the opportunity to cheat. people who dont cheat most of the time do not have the opportunity to cheat. they dont have anyone who wants to cheat with them or they cannot pick up girls. alot of men who cheat have the opportunity and the guts to do it. i think this is why men cheat most of the time. women cheat because they are in relationships that give them no excitement. they are bored with their lives and their husbands. people need to understand if there is no passion in their lives they will more than likeley make something up . and alot of time it is cheating. or they buy a new care. or they go do dangerous things. for me i cheated on my wife because she did not treat me with any love at all she was very cold and distant. if she had acted like she was my wife alone and not everyone elses person then i probably would never have cheated on her. a person wants to feel like they are their mates whole world., they want passion and they want to be loved completley. this is why im looking for my mate. i have not found this yet. i want a woman to listen to me and care about what i want for a change. so many women only want a man to care about them and listen to them talk about what is important to them. they want to be treated nice and given flowers and candy and their birthdays remembered. but whdont men get the same thing?? this is why more men cheat than women.