after being in a 26-year relationship that ended 4 years ago, i spent the time working on myself, learning to love myself again - really a journey on how to better take care of myself spiritually, physically, and mentally. because of this work, i am living my best life - truly. not only have i survived a divorce, sold our home, and moved into my own apartment at the same time i was diagnosed with 3 autoimmune conditions. this was all within three years, and each one was diagnosed 1 year apart from the other.
now, i feel reinvigorated, am happy, and love my life. i am looking for a partner that will walk with me as i continue on in this journey. it is my prayer that my partner and i will use one another's health experiences as well as our other life experiences to lift one another up, to respect, love, and nurture each other. and above all, live our truth, present to the world as we are, and live life with the purpose to serve others and to love ourselves.
Xtrachocolate, 54
2 months agoAlexandria, VA, USA
Dark Chocolate With Assorted Fruit in the Middle
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Gay
Height
6'2"
Weight
210 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Travel, Television, Music, Movies, Dancing, Cruises
Body Type
Average
Movies
Indie, Romantic comedy, Romance, Drama, Comedy, Action
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
Single
Have Kids
No - do not want kids
Education Level
Doctorate
Profession
Legal Services
Income level
$100,000+
Do you smoke?
No - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
Socially
I currently live
Alone
Socially, I am
Better in small groups, Home body, Shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
Democrat
Food Related
Italian, Gluten-free Diet, Mediterranean, Chocoholic, Organic
Personality
Frugal, Intellectual, Geek, Lover, Thrifty, Professional, Nerd
Individuality
Clairvoyant
Religious Views
Christian
Miscellaneous
Undetectable, HIV+
I'm looking for
Mr. right, Relationship, Romance, Soulmate, Travel companion
My Sign
Capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Music
Pop, R and B, Soul, Techno, Hip Hop, Motown, Gospel, Dance
Hair Style
Buzz cut
Fitness & Sports
Dancing, Swimming, Walking
Health Related
Acupuncture, Alternative medicine, Challenging health issues, Chronic health issues, Western medicine, Holistic treatment, Eastern medicine
Languages
English
My Preferred Pronouns
No Pronoun Preference
Social Justice
Black Lives Matter Advocate, Pro-Choice Advocate, LGBTQ Issues Advocate, Feminist Movement Advocate, Climate Change Believer, All Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time
Highly Sensitive Type
Empath, Intuitive, Sensitive
High Sensation Seeker
Experience Seeking
My Photos
My Friends
No Friends Added Yet!
My Groups
No Groups Yet!
Online Dating Sites
- Be Choosie
- Zoosk
- Gay Life Partners
- Friendfinder
- Singles Online
- Local Personals Online
- Dating Buddies
- Sweet And Casual
Webcam Sites
Personals / Chat Sites
Miscellaneous